一个女人教我懂得珍惜眼前人

最青涩的年纪，他和她相遇。那时，她20岁，他21岁。

他们都是穷孩子出身，来上大学时，他口袋里只有一百块钱，而她穿着母亲手缝的内衣，那时他们想，一定要在北京这座城市站住脚。

没有钱花前月下，但两个人的爱情一点也不少，坐在湖边，一边读书一边谈情，他随手采了手边的草，给她编一个草戒指，然后小心翼翼地套在她的手上，她笑着说：“好看。”

那个戒指，她趁他不注重夹在了书里，后来，一直偷偷戴。他说，将来有了钱，就给她买金买银买钻石的。这些话，她信。

大四那年，他们偷食禁果，她怀上了。

那时学校里校风很严，学校里知道了这件事情，她一个人承担了下来，没有说出他的名字，虽然所有同学老师都知道是他，可是她说：”不，不是他的，与他没有关系。”两个人的前程，不能全都耽搁了，她要让他知道，她有多爱他，甚至可以为他放弃自己的一切。

他跪在她面前：“你放心，我们说过相爱一辈子的，毕业后我找好工作就接你回来。你先回家，等我，好吗？”

她无法在北京再待下去，回了老家。他也守信用，天天一个电话， 两个月回来一次， 毕业时，他如愿留在北京，而且进了中直机关。他是农村孩子，在这里没根没业，有同事就介绍女孩子给他，是个北京女孩，父母是高干，有车有房不算，还能对他的前途有极大帮助。

那时，他有些动摇了。

是啊，她在乡村，只是一个没有毕业的女孩，还快生孩子了，将来还能有什么前途？那一刻，在情感的天平上，他做了倾斜，可是，他还是良心发现，觉得这样做不妥。

生孩子的时候，她打来电话说：“此时，多想你在身边。”

他赶回去是两个月后，看到敞着怀给孩子吃奶的她，披头散发，衣襟上沾着饭粒子，面色很黄。怀里的孩子叫着，他想着北京追求自己的漂亮女子，简直是天与地的差别。

她看出他的慌张，也看出了他的迟疑，说：“假如你不方便，我不会拖累你的，真的，我可以再嫁别人，我也知道，今天和昨天的你，不可同日而语了。”

此时的他羞愧万分，可他想不要她也是真的。于是，他掏出一张银行卡，那是两万块钱，于她而言，那是很大的一笔数字了，他撒了谎，没说不爱她了，只说：“我要出国，不知何时才能回来，你不要等待我了。”

他当然没有出国，而是和一个**谈起了恋爱，去吃马克西姆餐厅的西餐，学着穿西服打领带，去弹着钢琴的五星级宾馆里喝咖啡，也用英语说亲爱的……总之，他要把旧的那套全部抛弃掉，他要开始新的爱情和新的生活。

怕她打搅，他换了手机号，对所有同学朋友说他要出国了，正在办手续。

而她则给了他更干脆的消息，她说：“我嫁人了，不要担心我，你我，尘缘已尽。”

他这才放下了一颗心，从此张扬着自己的现代时尚爱情，把自己融入到北京人圈子中，但有时他也慌张，是在梦里，他碰到她，她眼泪汪汪，一遍遍地问：“你不是说要和我好一辈子吗？”醒来一身冷汗。还好，她结了婚，没给自己找麻烦。看来，钱能摆平一切的

Mostage, and she met him. At the time, her 20-year-old, his 21-year-old.

They are born poor children to college, he pockets only 100 money, and her mother Shoufeng wearing the underwear, then they want to, we must firm foothold in the Beijing city.

Huajianruxia do not have the money, but two people is also a lot of love, sitting lake side Shall We study the side, he readily at hand mining the grass, grass to her for a ring, and then she carefully sets in the hands of She said with a smile: "Good Looks."

That ring, he did not pay attention to her when caught in a book, then, has been secretly wearing. He said that future money on the buy silver Geichimai buy diamonds. These words, her letter.

A senior that year, having tasted the forbidden fruit, she was pregnant with.

At that time, school ethos of the school is very strict,wholesale necklaceand the schools know this matter, she assumed a person down, did not say his name, although all the students are aware of his teachers, but she said: "No, not him, no relationship with him. "two people of the future, not all the delays, she let him know how she loves him, and even he can give up his all.

He knelt down before her: "You rest assured that we love life that, after graduation to find me a good job then you will come back. Your first home, waiting for me, okay?"

She was unable to Daixiaqu in Beijing to return to the home. He also trustworthiness, a telephone call every day, a month back, graduation, he do so to stay in Beijing, but also into the central. He is rural children, in the not-kan no industry here, a colleague on the girls to him, is a Beijing girls, the parents are senior cadres, the car is not there, but also for his great help in the future.

At that time, he was somewhat shaken.

Ah yes, she in the countryside, not only a graduate of girls, fast kids, the future can have any future? At that moment, in the emotional scale, he has done a favor, but he still Liangxinfaxian, think this is nothing wrong.

The children, she made a phone call, said: "At this time, wish you around."

He is back to two months after the Wye Changzhao to see her children infants, Pitousanfa, Yijin, Tianzhe rice particles, looking very yellow. Arms running for the children, he thought Beijing to pursue its own beautiful woman, it is the difference between heaven and earth.

She seen him flustered, and that his hesitation and said: "If you inconvenient, I will not drag you, really, I can Remarriage others, I know that today and yesterday, you, not the same day and language. "

At this juncture of his great shame, he was really think she is not. Therefore, he took out a bank card, it is 20,000 money, in her case, it is a great figure, he lied, did not say she does not love, only said: "I want to go abroad, I do not know what When can we come back, you do not wait for me. "

He certainly did not go abroad, but a senior cadres, and the children started talking about love, go to the Western Maxim restaurant, learn to wear suit and tie, and the missiles to a five-star hotel in piano coffee, but also in English Dear …… In short, he wanted to discard all the old hands out, he wanted to start a new love and a new life.

That she disturb, he changed phone, a friend to all the students said he wanted to leave, is the formalities.

And she gave him the news morewholesale pearlsimply, she said: "I am married, and not to worry about me, you and I, Chen Yuan has done."

This he put down a heart, the publicity from their love of modern fashion, to merge themselves into the circle in Beijing, but sometimes he also panic, in the dream, he met her, she Wenleihonghong again with the Q: "You and I do not mean to a good life?" woke up a cold sweat. Fortunately, she was married, did not give its own trouble. It seems, can get the money all